Married life has been such a blast! And really has motivated me to pray for awesome men of God to come along and sweep Shannon, Jojo and Tiffani off their feet. It is so fun to have someone to share life with in such a deeply connected way. It has also been a great challenge in learning selflessness, humility, and submission (not that I’m there yet).
As much fun as we are having, sometimes people respond to my joy with, “oh just wait until you get past 6 or 8 months”. This dismissal of my joy really makes me cringe. We experienced a similar thing prior to marriage. Some people were encouraging and talked about the joys of marriage, but others would simply talk about how hard it was. Well, I’ve decided that its all about perception. You can look at the challenges of marriage (or life in general) and say, “what a great challenge, oh how I am learning and growing”. Or you can think, “oh what a struggle, this life is so hard…”. So, I’ve decided to go with the former. And with this in mind, I’ll pose a few questions: For those who are married: what do you enjoy about married life? For those who are single: what do you enjoy about being single? For those with children: what do you enjoy about being a parent?
Lastly, since being married I have become very aware of how appropriate it is to pray for significant others who might come into the lives of our single family members and friends. So, for those who are single, what can we ask God to provide you with? As an example, though I’m not entirely sure I ever asked for this specifically, I have loved having Jordan’s sense of humor in the house. Just last night I was feeling a little down when I looked over at my husband who made the goofiest face just at that moment. I burst out in laughter as a good portion of my anxiety was relieved. Awesome how God knew just what I would need in a mate.


































